Anger Relapses and How to Deal

Anger Relapses and How to Deal

A lot of people believe that once you start working on anger management, you should never lose your temper again. This is one of the biggest myths about managing anger. Many individuals think that if they slip up and have an angry outburst, it means they have failed and that their anger management techniques are not working. This kind of all-or-nothing thinking is not only unhelpful but also unrealistic. It is completely unreasonable to expect that you will never feel anger again. Anger is a normal, healthy emotion that everyone experiences. The goal of anger management is not to eliminate…
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Anger Iceberg

Anger Iceberg

Anger is like an iceberg. There is that tip that is sticking out, which everyone sees. So, it is not difficult to see when a person is angry. However, Icebergs have about 90% more to them that what meets the eye. Anger is the same way. Anger is the symptom. Symptom of what? Well, it is different for each person. Many people's anger iceberg includes fears, insecurities, bottled up frustrations, hurt pride, feelings of disrespect, and various other emotions. Given that it is usually quite easy to see a person's anger, but difficult to see the rest of their anger…
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