Rules for Fair Fighting: Couples Therapy
This is used in couples therapy to help my clients have productive conversations. If you can follow these rules, you are much more likely to have productive communication. 1. Decide upon a time of day and time limit before you begin and stick to it. Make this session last around 20 minutes-don't overdo it. If you don't finish in that allotted time, schedule another time the next day. 2. Decide how many “zaps” you'll permit before you (or the other) walk out. A zap is a hurtful remark, an insult, a threat, a sarcastic dig and so on. Any attempt…